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Carpe Diem!!!
 (Seize the Day)


What documentary photography (also called "photojournalism") is all about and how to make the most from your photographer's skills…

A good documentary photographer can most often slide around a subject unnoticed, capturing moments that would otherwise be lost to time, excitement and champagne. Other times it is necessary for a photographer to get close to his subject. If it is that documentary or "photojournalism" style of photography you've chosen to seize your day, plan ahead to work with the photographer by relaxing and enjoying your moment. So many times the people being photographed feel an obligation to pose when the camera is upon them, but the best photographs come from subjects who are so into the moment that they are oblivious to the camera. Here's a good example of what I mean: everyone remembers the iconoclastic photograph of three firemen hoisting the American flag on top of a pile of rubble. Think of what that photograph would have been had they stopped to pose for the photographer. It's an extreme example yes, but the affect of photojournalism - true photojournalism - the beauty of the reality and the honesty of the moment, is essentially the same. Imagine your wedding photographs having the same feeling, that same heart tug. Ten years from now, long after the cake has been eaten and the flowers have died, you'll open your album, or treasured photo box, and reminisce those moments - remembered and forgotten - picture by picture.

Some time in the weeks before your wedding day, tell your bridal party you've chosen a documentary style photographer, and for this reason you want them to relax at your wedding and not feel an obligation to "pose" should they notice a camera lens turned their way. Tell them to grab their friends and pose for group shots at any time, but to resist the desire to pose each time the photographer has the camera pointed in their direction. Talk with your fiancé, too, about what you want from your wedding photography. If you want a full documentary of your day and he only wants a few photos snapped, tell him he'll only have to pose for a few formals - then leave the rest of the work to the photographer. Your sound decision to use a documentary photographer will be reflected in the hundreds of beautiful photographs you'll come to love and cherish.

How to pose for posed photographs and how to get the best formals from your photographer…

Most of this is, again, the work of the photographer, but there a few things you can do to ensure you get the most from posed portraiture. Here are some often encountered difficulties in which wedding photographers are often faced and how you can help prevent these problems.

The situation: Posed portraiture has been delayed because a groomsman or bridesmaid is late. This occurs quite frequently and has delayed the schedule up to an hour or more in some cases.

The result: Fewer photographs for you. You have a finite time between when formal photographs begin and when they end. A good photographer will, of course, wisely use waiting time to photograph other things, but by the time the late person arrives, the photographer is rushed to finish the session on time. Just as you wouldn't want your caterer to rush the job and potentially compromise your food decor, neither do you want your photographer to be hurried.

How you can help: Remind everyone - this includes the bridal party and both families - when and where posed photographs are to begin. Remind them to be dressed and ready to go by this time. Remind the groomsmen that they will need to put on their boutonnieres before photographs are to begin. Florists should have all bridal party flowers at the ceremony site several hours before photographs are to be taken, so attendant's bouquets and the bridal bouquet, and the church flowers, should be in place before formal photographs are to begin.

The situation: Two of the attendants are chewing gum. A bridesmaid and a groomsman continue to talk during the formal photography session.

The result: Either their mouths look funny in the photos because they were chewing or talking, or the photographer must stop the session, correct the talking attendants (sometimes repeatedly) and/or wait for the gum-chewing attendants to spit out their gum. This can be especially frustrating for the wedding couple and the photographer as well.

How you can help: Ask your family and wedding party (especially if it is a large one) to refrain from chewing gum during the photo session. Tell them also to refrain from talking to each other during the formal shooting session. Eyes should be directed at the camera's lens and everyone should be smiling. A good photographer will happily remind everyone of these good practices at the session, but it saves a considerable amount of time if, beforehand, everyone knows exactly what to do. And more time means one thing - more quality pictures for you!

The situation: The photographer is taking posed portraits, or photos of the cake-cutting and eating, and guests are either taking pictures over her shoulder or asking her to move out of the way so that they can take their own photographs.

The result: Harsh shadows, technically incorrect photographs from the flashes of other camera users. If the photographer has to stop for others to take photos, you get fewer professional photographs and more amateur photographs. It's sort of like letting the baker bake the cake and then inviting each of your guests to decorate it.

How you can help: You've paid a lot of money for professional photographs. Don't let amateur photographers, although well intentioned, sabotage your effort, time and money, or the effort of your professional photographer. Nothing is as frustrating as a great photograph turned bad because someone else's incorrect flash setting blew the bride and groom away at the cake table while they were cutting the cake or because a red light beam from someone’s camera across the dance floor is in all of your dancing photos and must be digitally removed. Tell your wedding party, friends and family that you have hired a professional photographer to document your wedding and you would appreciate their not taking photographs while the photographer is taking special photographs (during formals, toasts, cake cutting, first dance, bouquet and garter toss).  Several of my clients have posted framed signs that explain a professional photographer has been hired and kindly requests that guests refrain from taking photos during the ceremony, formal sessions and other special events.